Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Dancing Queen

I love watching the enthusiasm in this little girl when she dances. She was just accepted into UDF (Ultimate Dance Force), a competitive dance competition team. Woo Hoo

This photo is from the day of her recital. She did a Dr. Seuss routine and a Hip Hop version of the hokey Pokey. They were great!
This was a Christmas Performance.

Anyone Flicker?


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Never enough time!

Today, as I sat at my computer, my 4 yr old daughter loudly stated from her play room (she's setting up a store with items to sell me, so that I'll have to visit/play with her), "I have a clock". I think to myself, you can't tell time...what are you going to use it for, bookends? She says, "What?". Okay, so I meant to think it, but I actually said it out loud! So I replied, "What is the clock for?". To which she said, "It's in case anyone runs out of time".


How can a mother whose days are far too short to accomplish what's necessary not love this mind! I simply need more clocks in my house and life will be so much easier!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

My thoughts on Wedding Memorials

Memorials and tributes are becoming an increasingly popular trend during wedding ceremonies. A memorial, an object which serves as a focus for memory of someone who has died, can come in many forms. Whether it's in a large fashion for every participant to share in, or something small, that maybe only the bride and groom are aware of, the range of options is large. A wedding is so much more than just the union of two people, it's about family, and it's a completely appropriate time to remember the lives of loved ones who have passed on. How they are remembered is ultimately up to the bride and groom. Some couples will choose to have a memorial table with a framed photograph present, or they may light a special candle. Some will choose to place flowers on the seats that their loved ones would have sat in, or have a poem read, while others may have their officiate ask for a moment of silence in memory of the loved ones not present.

For brides who are concerned about creating a large depressing pause during such a happy time; a popular trend is the bouquet memorial charm. They are a great way to help take any sadness away from her big moment, since conversations about the memorial charms are likely to happen after the ceremony. Unless she shows off the charms prior to the ceremony, no one will be able to see them until she is walking down the aisle. If the person who has passed on was a family member of someone in the wedding party other than the bride, there are memorial charm pins designed specifically for them, such as a brooch charm pin for women, or a boutonniere charm pin for men.


For quality, custom photo memorial charms visit me on Etsy. You will find a variety of Bridal Memorial Charms that you can personalize with your favorite photos and heartfelt sentiments. It's a special way for brides keep their loved ones near their heart on such a special day.


Side note about me:
Prior to getting married, my husband and I lost our fathers to cancer within a year of each other. We've had to support each other through unbelievable heartache and loss. My husband and I were married the following year. As it turned out, we were married on Father's Day & my grandfather walked me down the aisle. All of this happened before I ever even dreamed of creating my photo tiles, but my experiences have brought me to a place of deep understanding for brides who wish to honor/remember their family members on their wedding day. I can tell you that every memorial charm I make helps in my own healing process, and my heart goes into every order.

Monday, June 6, 2011

Just had to share the Top 3 Credit Myths for Married Couples.




When you vow to take your spouse in sickness and in health, are you saying “I Do” to their bad credit, too?

Couples don’t typically discuss credit health before walking down the aisle, but they should. Knowing the truth can prevent credit damage and (ultimately) help you save thousands on loans.

Here are the facts behind three common myths:

Myth 1: When we marry, our credit histories merge.
There is no joint credit report or credit score. Your credit reports and scores remain separate, even after you change your last name.

Myth 2: I’ll be affected by his bad credit, or vice versa.
Marriage, in itself, can’t impact your credit. But, if you co-sign for your spouse, or if you open a joint account like a mortgage, credit card, or loan, it shows up on both your credit reports. His bad credit may impact your chance for approval and lower interest rates (and vice versa). More important, bad credit could signal harmful habits. Also, if your mate maxes out or defaults on a joint account, it can damage both of your credit scores and you’d both held responsible for any debts incurred.

Myth 3: When we marry, we’ll share all accounts.
Getting married doesn’t automatically merge any of your financial accounts; that decision is up to you and your spouse. But be smart and discuss each other’s credit history and financial position before tying the knot. Knowing the truth helps prepare you both to tackle any future financial strain.