Tuesday, June 14, 2011

My thoughts on Wedding Memorials

Memorials and tributes are becoming an increasingly popular trend during wedding ceremonies. A memorial, an object which serves as a focus for memory of someone who has died, can come in many forms. Whether it's in a large fashion for every participant to share in, or something small, that maybe only the bride and groom are aware of, the range of options is large. A wedding is so much more than just the union of two people, it's about family, and it's a completely appropriate time to remember the lives of loved ones who have passed on. How they are remembered is ultimately up to the bride and groom. Some couples will choose to have a memorial table with a framed photograph present, or they may light a special candle. Some will choose to place flowers on the seats that their loved ones would have sat in, or have a poem read, while others may have their officiate ask for a moment of silence in memory of the loved ones not present.

For brides who are concerned about creating a large depressing pause during such a happy time; a popular trend is the bouquet memorial charm. They are a great way to help take any sadness away from her big moment, since conversations about the memorial charms are likely to happen after the ceremony. Unless she shows off the charms prior to the ceremony, no one will be able to see them until she is walking down the aisle. If the person who has passed on was a family member of someone in the wedding party other than the bride, there are memorial charm pins designed specifically for them, such as a brooch charm pin for women, or a boutonniere charm pin for men.


For quality, custom photo memorial charms visit me on Etsy. You will find a variety of Bridal Memorial Charms that you can personalize with your favorite photos and heartfelt sentiments. It's a special way for brides keep their loved ones near their heart on such a special day.


Side note about me:
Prior to getting married, my husband and I lost our fathers to cancer within a year of each other. We've had to support each other through unbelievable heartache and loss. My husband and I were married the following year. As it turned out, we were married on Father's Day & my grandfather walked me down the aisle. All of this happened before I ever even dreamed of creating my photo tiles, but my experiences have brought me to a place of deep understanding for brides who wish to honor/remember their family members on their wedding day. I can tell you that every memorial charm I make helps in my own healing process, and my heart goes into every order.

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